It is not uncommon for people to be unsatisfied in their divorce process. People who may be the breadwinners can pursue a strategy to drain the other side of money until they give in or simply do not understand.
What you need to do is work on two things:
- Develop a strategy to stop the ongoing process
- Enable the other side to say these magic words “this makes sense to me”
Some people never will make sense of things no matter how much logic is thrown at them. They just don’t want to have their spouse benefit from the assets available. That requires strategic thinking and how to make them think differently.
Most other people are struggling to figure out how to say the magic words above. If that is the case you need to focus on how to bring the horse to water per se.
In our practice we developed the missing financial frameworks around divorce accounting, divorce tax, divorce settlement structures, divorce process management and more. We use these frameworks to make our thoughts visible as well as connect people’s feelings, fears, uncertainties, etc. to numbers. Once they see the numbers that are designed to make senes then the financial stress goes down and emotional stress reduces too.
If you would like to talk about this further, feel free to reach out to me at [email protected]. Write in the subject line you would like a Free 30 minute consult. I will provide it to you free of charge to see if we can help you with no obligation to move forward whatsoever.
I hope this article was helpful to you.